Decide who controls what
Check the device, physical remote and any app separately.
Agree on the controls before sharing
Discuss who will hold the device or controller and how either person can ask to stop. Practice the off action with the device away from the body.
Keep a local way to stop
A remote may change intensity without having the same controls as the device. Identify the local stop action first. For remote invitations over the internet, see the partner app session guide.
Change one setting at a time
Agree before switching devices or changing intensity. Stop if consent is unclear or communication breaks down. Resume only after checking in.